How to impress girls

So, no one likes being on their own all.

Someone will always be there to cheer you up or give advice, but first-time girlfriends find it difficult to accept that they’re not as enthusiastic about getting along with other people as they are when they’re out having fun.

Even when we’re alone for the night, we tend to get a bit antsy and want our boyfriends, husbands, girlfriends, other women, to be around, because of course we’d rather hang out with them than with someone we know.

We don’t like being on our own in the same house as everyone else, and we certainly don’t like feeling so isolated. We also like the idea of being able to have someone come by and see us in case we need company, but all of that is over-hyped and rarely happens. Sure, we still occasionally go over to play games, but we mostly avoid doing this.

We don’t want to be stuck at home, either. Do you know how sometimes we feel like we’re being kept from having fun in our little circles? Well, if we didn’t, then who would have any fun in such a lonely world? It’s okay if we do go out for fun sometimes, but it’s not OK if we’ve been brought back to reality by the fact that we have friends and family coming to visit us.

We can go out once in a while, and we also do enjoy going to some pretty cool places for fun, but again…it’s no good if we’re locked inside of ourselves every time we go there. If we’re so exhausted and bored with daily life and our jobs and relationships with our partners that we want to hang out with someone, it’s OK. But we shouldn’t stay there for too long and feel the need to find a new place and spend more time in our little circle.

I’d say being on your own in bed is the most tiring job in the entire world, but when you spend too much time in that position without the comfort of knowing that it will leave you tired, sick, frustrated, annoyed, and irritable, it shows how useless those feelings can be and what being on your own can mean to you.

Having someone around at night is definitely better, but remember that any place where you stay in your room with your partner for an extended period of time is a bad choice. No matter how well you think you’ll be able to manage it, it seems as though every day you’ll be at this spot where your partner will check-in and then he or she will end up bringing you food, a glass of wine, or anything that will make him or her happy.

That’s right, sometimes I miss the camaraderie that I get with my best friend over video games because I’m sitting alone in my room, but when I got here earlier and was already pissed off at my partner, it didn’t help.

I wasn’t comfortable spending all my free time with somebody I didn’t even really know, so instead, I took a bottle of ginger ale and drank it before hitting the hay and going back to sleep so that I could wake up fresh and ready to go!

That’s the only thing about staying in the bedroom with my husband that’s OK. I can talk to his wife over a phone call and be heard from him and I can watch TV or movies, but there’s something weird about me being alone in the bedroom in the dark and I don’t feel very happy about being left to myself. Sometimes, if I’m feeling particularly depressed or down – especially if there’s someone watching porn, I’ll bring in snacks and I’ll just cuddle with somebody. That doesn’t seem to help.

It didn’t help all that I had a girlfriend on another night. She slept right next to me and spent the whole night next to our partner. When we were both asleep, she went right up to hold onto my hand and said sweet little things that made me smile. Just in case the guy downstairs was still thinking about me that night. As soon as the girlfriend told me that I could go sleep with the guys downstairs as well, I cried down the stairs and told them to leave me alone so that I wouldn’t have to deal with it.

It’s funny the things I didn’t know about a relationship.

One major thing about being a girlfriend in bed with someone: They won’t even look at each other. There’s just no way that a couple could ever have a conversation with each other without either one of them thinking that the other should stop everything at some point and start talking to someone else.

There’s nothing more embarrassing than holding hands in front of others. Maybe I can kiss someone, but why would I want to do that? Why are they so embarrassed?! There’s no reason that they’ve forgotten who’s standing by my side or thinking, “I’m glad that I don’t even think a word of them!” when they can’t even see the face of my girl.

Then there’s the situation in which I was wearing pajamas and I wasn’t even close to ready when he came and woke up. In the wee hours, I couldn’t wait until he woke up to finally hear my voice. Because me being so excited about my girlfriend, I thought I could hear him and know right away what was going on because I could smell it and see that the sweat on his body told him subconsciously whether he was ready to hear my words.

And that’s really all it should come down to, really. One person should never try to force a relationship onto another. Don’t expect the other to change anything about you just because you’re different. That person is someone that deserves respect and for any reason, they haven’t. Respect comes at a price, but it has to come at a price. The person you are with is someone that deserves to be treated exactly as they deserve. Not like you treat them less than you deserve.

If you’re trying to show some respect to your partner, remember that you are equal in everyone’s eyes. Try to treat them as if you would like to be treated equally. And you shouldn’t let it go in your head that those two men were right where they always were, ready to pick on the woman until they lost.

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